i'm frustrated with my brother. he promises one thing, but then conveniently forgets and so i seem like i'm a stingy miser because i act based on what he promised me. last time, he promised me $1000 if i opened an account with one bank, and another $1000 if i opened another account elsewhere that he though was good for investing. he even said it was a good deal for me because i'd get $2K for doing something so easy, so i took him up on the offer. i opened an account at the first bank, then another account at the 2nd place. but then he only gave me $1K. it's not what he promised me, but it's not zero so i feel like i can't complain. but it's not what he promised me and i feel greedy for being upset about it.