i'm so over women who get all sad because the guy they were in a situantionship with didn't want something serious. like, girl, you KNEW it wasn't serious. what the hell? why do you keep expecting more out of these guys when you know they don't want it? why do you keep saying yes when you know you want more? why are you wasting your own time and breaking your own heart? you knew what this was, but then you still want to pretend in your head that it was more???????? if you want more, say no to those guys and only go for the serious ones. the fact that you don't only shows your desperation and that you're willing to sacrifice your emotional happiness for this short term thrill and because "i looooooove him". well, he doesn't love you. he never said this was about love. that's i like about guys sometimes, they are straightforward. but nooooo, it's delulu women who only hear what they want to hear. oh, and "I can change him". ugh. you deserve your heartbreak.