I feel like my gf is drifting further and further apart from me and I don't know what to do. at this point in our lives she's constantly stressed about various things and it's completely reasonably to be stressed but whenever she's stressed she shuts down and she heals on her own. However when I'm stressed I want her to be there to comfort me and tell me that nothing else matters because I'm safe with her but right now we're both stressed out so she's been distant but I'm extra dependent on her and I don't know what to do. I'm scared. I'm scared of loosing her. I'm scared of telling her that it hurts me when she's more distant, that I'm scared she'll just think of me as a chore or something else to deal with. I feel like I can't tell her because she has enough to worry about already and I don't need to be another thing on the to do list. In my heart I KNOW she would never think of me like that. maybe it's just my ocd telling me I'm worthless again.