My partner asked me to block someone for them which fine I did since she made me deeply uncomfortable they unblocked her to text a final goodbye which fine some people need but they apparently kept texting I let that go even if hurt I blocked her in a game for them but now found out they unblocked her and played with her without telling me once a few days ago and now again yesterday I thought fine it was just once but no they played together again yesterday which hurts so much because I wasn't told they know she makes me deeply uncomfortable and every time I hear they speak she always adds to the conversation shifting the blame towards me in a way they dont notice but then repeats it back to me and all I feel is blamed I love them so much I dont bring up how upset I am about it as they mentally already aren't doing well but I just wish they would notice that I need them i cried for hours I was shaking and barely able to breathe all I wanted was to not be alone but I was