Cutting into an opened wound. "They were just a kid!"- so was I. "Age is just a number!"- it is in some cases, but when I am still developing LIVING I'm not ready for sexting. "I'm still getting used to using 'they/them' pronouns for you! I can't use 'he/him' just yet!"- MOM, I identified with 'they/them' pronouns for 4 years at the time, you've had the time to get used to it. " don't spend all your time in your room, I don't want you becoming depressed! "- I already was!