My ex and I have remained in contact though we broke up. Just on Monday she said “ Hey. I’ve been doing a lot of thinking and I just need some time and space to process everything. I’m hurt and tired and not in the place to have a conversation about this right now. Hopefully that’s ok and you can respect that. I’ll reach out when I am ready ” It’s annoying because I had actually just visited her for three days over the 4th of July and it was good! And we were really warm and talked a lot two days after. Randomly on the third week she became more cold and distant. We weren’t talking much at that point to I made an instagram account to start posting vlogs to as if I were talking to her. I just talked about my day and stuff. My idea was that for her birthday I would send her the account with a bunch of edited vlogs and videos as a fun “day in my life. “ I thought she’d like it and was a fun way to stay connected. I forgot to private the account and she found it and got upset??