I love my boyfriend but lately I feel like he doesn't value me much like I know he cares in his own way but it's like he's gotten lazy and doesn't really show his care I am constantly worrying about him needing and deserving someone better because in my eyes he deserves the world and more I want him to succeed in whatever he chooses and I am putting so much effort into making sure he feels loved and cared for but it's draining me emotionally and lately he's been getting cocky about me when I'm not around painting me out as someone I'm not overly fond of and it feels like he's taking me for granted I know I need to talk to him about this but I hate these kinds of conversations but I don't want my own fears be the reason I come to resent some of his actions because everyone has their flaws and I don't want that to define him and dim his amazing qualities anyone have any input?