An older woman I share the same group with (70 years old) bullied me and when I spoke up about it I was looked at as the "bad guy" because she has cancer (lymphoma) and she used that as an excuse like a shield to escape accountability for mistreating me. I'm trying to have compassion but I believe I am owed and apology, is that so bad? Am I wrong for this?should I let anybody who has an illness mistreat me? am I supposed to quietly take it and silently pity her? so now if you have an illness there's no accountability? I don't understand these rules... how dare I... how dare I not get over it.... how dare I speak out loud the experience I had with this woman.... how dare I hurt when it's my responsibility to heal my own wounds to get over it when someone mistreats me..... how dare I be so inconsiderate......the audacity I carry around....