my 20yr old best friend thinks he has bpd, with the abandonment issues, withdrawal problems,chronic lack of emptiness, in my opinion i also think he has it, dude to abusive and shitty family. Hes also attached to me, like if we're in a game if i call him my best friend, he makes me call him my best friend and he gets really distant when i talk to other people, im bringing this up because yesterday we was playing roblox vc game together and when people kept talking to me he said "I want to kill him all". we've had problems like this before where hes made me swear on his name that i wouldn't do a certain thing, even though it wasn't bad, and we got over that, it just feels that whenever i talk to other people, it makes him distant and it's awkward to talk to him, i had a feeling he had a crush on me but he said he just feels platonic to me.