My partner has heavy anxiety. They also explain that it is hard to do basic things to the point that if they brush their teeth they can't feed the animals, or clean or make food or EAT FOOD. And they usually call me, during work hours to vent that frustration which is especially shitty when I asked them to do a chore for me because I needed a bit of help so they call an hour before my work ends that the chore is not done, that they are overwhelmed and that they can't even brush teeth. Repeatedly saying how its the worst chore ever and that they hate it but they will do it but it's ruining their day. Seemingly oblivious how it feels on the other end. The worst part that I don't think I deserve to be angry about it because they helped through the worst of my deppression(i also get this thrown at me during arguments when I say that it is hard for me to deal with this behaviour) so I feel guilty writing this. It feeds my anger because I should be allowed to feel. I cant do that witout argu