The verbal abuse my one family member gives the other is unreal. Idk why they put up with it even if they are drunk. I even heard them say don't hit me. It must not have been hard but still. If I intervene they'll just turn on me like an attack dog from past experience. Idk why you married them. Every single time they get drunk do this shit then have amnesia of it. Then don't want to hear about what they did or say. They really deserve to be thrown to the curb for this shit. Addiction or not they could control themselves from getting this way if they tried. Last time we were trashed and I didn't even do anything to them. This makes want to go no contact and elsewhere so bad. If you care about your drunks more than your family gtfo. Oh wait that's right they won't because they know nobody including their sibling will put up with this stuff. That's why everybody burned bridges to them that and ripping people off. But then they don't talk to me because of it too and I didn't do nothing.