I care about my older brother, but he sucks. He’s 40. He’s worked the same dead-end job for over 20 years with an abusive boss who regularly commits wage theft. But he won’t leave because it’s familiar and he can shirk his duties—or regularly sleep in—without being fired. He drinks heavily and drives while intoxicated because his tolerance for alcohol is so high he’s “technically” sober. (A breathalyzer and/or blood test would obviously indicate he’s under the influence.) He can’t recall conversations. He doesn’t clean up after himself and is a slob—his living space typically looks like a crime scene. He constantly needs money but he’s financially irresponsible. He once bought a huge rack of ribs and then forgot it in his fridge where it rotted. His body is in awful condition; I can’t see him living beyond the age of 45. He was served an eviction notice but didn’t bother to appear in court, so it was automatically ruled against him. I can’t help him anymore. I’m done.