You get annoyed at me for asking you basic questions for clarification, treat me like I'm some fucking annoyance when I'm your wife, and then when I ask if I did something fo upset you, you get all irritated and say "I just wanna play my video games." You think I don't wanna do that shit too!? But even when I have days off I can't just laze around cause we have a million things to do around the house. "We'll do it later." No. I'll do it later, and then I'll stress about getting shit done last minute. So no, I will do it now while you sit on your ass and complain that I'm not giving you attention. You are no longer my safe space, and maybe you never were.