It pisses me off because family want to invalidate me like it doesn't matter how I feel. Let something affect them though. That's when they'll go on complaining ranting etc. As long as it doesn't affect them it's like it doesn't matter. I hate when people act this way. It's like my other relative would go 'but that's their problem!" Not my problem. Ok. Well I heard them say one day because they were bad to show up with out warning before and visit. Yet they themselves are all like," so and so did this or that to me". Or me me me me me me me basically. And have audacity to call our house and literally cry after acting that way about their own problems. I don't care, age or issue, people don't have to act like that. Of course they haven't called in months thanks to being on not speaking terms because of what my fam did to them (Idk I wasn't there its one persons word against another there but probably likely). I'm just over people acting so crappy. Family stranger and neighbors alike.