My husband says he feels bad for getting physical with me when we argue. But immediately after says it's because of how I talk that he loses control and does it. I'm in no way saying that I've never been in the wrong or that I've never said something I didn't mean. However, it feels like I'm being blamed for his actions that he can 100 percent control. We may both need to communicate better but I've never physically hurt him during an argument like this. This isn't the first time it's happened either. I already know everyone will say "Run" and "It'll only get worse." But I'm in a tough spot. I have no money and nowhere to go. He literally has control of my whole life and would probably ruin me for fun. I don't know what to do
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