Heavenly Father, I come to You admitting that I am not perfect and have fallen short. Thank You for Your incredible grace and for sending Jesus to pay the price for my sins. Please forgive me, cleanse my heart, and help me to walk in Your ways. In Jesus' name, Amen." I am currently taking care of my partner. We did not marry for medical snd social security issues. Its very sad from personal experience to have a lawyer tell you to divorce legaly but stay together and get the care and benefits from serious issues. This happened to my friends. She had Lupus at 18 my buddy married her. He got into an accident so the above was there only recourse to get medical help. They adoped and she passed 5 years later. I grew up with both of them .