I'm uncomfortable when other people vent to me. I'm not tryna be a asshole or anything, but it makes me feel weird. Due to me being quiet, a lot of adults have vented to me out of nowhere, maybe they wanted to relate to me or just pity me but it didn't feel like it. I'm 16 btw. I was 13 when an adult in school had told me his brother killed themselves n he lost all his family. In that moment, I didn't know what to do or say. He approached me bc I was alone on a bench. Another time, a girl my age vented to me. She had randomly hugged me n was pretty touchy on the 1st day, she then told me about her mother being absent. I bluntly told her I don't like ppl venting to me. It was harsh. Then, a older girl told me she had hallucinations n cut herself. I was 10 at the time. It felt weird since all those times I've been seen alone, all this would happen when we 1st met. I am being a hypocrite since I'm venting, but I'm not asking anyone to see this. You can ignore it and I'll live.