I think im a horrible person I try to be nice but a few years ago I overheard my friend talking about her trauma to someone by accident and since me and that friend have become closer, I’ve said things i probably shouldnt have related to that topic because my dumbass thought that if she didn’t tell me personally then it would be okay to discuss. She was never mad or never seemed uncomfortable but I should’ve fucking watched what I said around her and should’ve been mindful of her trauma and I feel horrible. i have another friend who was sa’d a few years ago and a girl in class recently was saying my friends’ abuser was good looking so in an attempt to save my classmate I told her that the abuser had hurt my friend a few years ago. (I didn’t say what he did but i hinted at it slightly and I remained anonymous about my friend). I only did this so the classmate would listen but I feel horrible and I don’t want to tell my friend becauseit would only make her feel bad