I feel horrible. I wanted to have a birthday celebration for my 17th and planned everything, but my mom broke down yesterday, saying she can't afford it. She seems so disappointed and i dont know how to help. She came into my room crying this morning about how shes sorry. And one thing about my mom she always tries her best to keep her word and do what shes says. But shes so hurt and im just telling her its okay, even though im a lil upset. Is it okay for me to be upset?