My wife of 4 years cheated on me. In 2024 she was telling her online friends we were divorced, and at the end of 2024 she went to her honeymoon country and slept with one of her online friends two weeks before I came up and visited her family for the holidays. In 2025 she lied and told me that she needed to go back to her home country to renew her passport, it was a lie she spent 3 weeks with the same guy who was her boyfriend at that point, I figured everything out by the time she came back. We have a four year old. I wanted to try and fix things for his sake and to quiet my conscience so that no matter what happened I knew I did all I could. She lied more kept in contact with the guy made it out to be my fault. Therapy failed she said she wanted to get a divorce months later, her plan was to bring this guy up and move in with him, luckily his visa was declined. She lives with me still, just waiting on the divorce, she acts like she has done nothing wrong, everyday hurts.