I'm 19, and I've been seeing a divorced man with kids. Okay, I know I'm awful, yes. But I'm the kind of girl who's embarrassing because she's looking for a father figure in her partner. Anyway, I've been at his house since yesterday. Today his wife came to pick up their kids, so I opened the door. She looked at me with disgust and asked who I was, but my boyfriend told her not to start. Suddenly, she started blaming me for everything. They've been separated for about five years, and I met him two years ago. Why would it be my fault? Then she started hysterically saying that he left her because she wasn't young or didn't look like a girl like me. I've been thinking about it ever since.