I'm 30, my future is confusing... My location is uncertain... My ability to draw paychecks is concerning. Everyone around me is pushing me for marriage.... Only thing I want to do is be financially ready as a man... marriage takes one day if I throw money at it... But none of the people who pushed for it will donate a penny for me to survive... No one talks about 6 decades of commitment to serve protect and hold it together while being excited for a marriage. I know I'm not the greatest choice out there for you. I have nothing to prove I'm the best choice... But if you feel I'm right in your gut... Hold on for a bit. Better safe than sorry..