I have a hatred for Yearning and people who don't understand the entire meaning of it and take it as a joke and misuse it. I may said it rudely but I still stand by it because tell me why I told my friend how I yearned my ex girlfriend and how she's the one I wanted in my life even when we broke up when he told me exactly this, "Bro, girls love men who yearn, she's just being hard to get. Keep yearning and she'll take you back, for sure." It immediately pissed me off because before me and my ex broke up, we agreed to respect each other's life and boundaries, but my painfully heart still aches for her only. If I were to make a wish, I would've wished for my yearning to stop and be normal without having my heart to ache every single day when I see or think of her and it makes me feel like a yearning fool in this whole wide world without realizing it.