A while ago like in middle school or something, I was in a friend group that sort of piled onto someone for no apparent reason, and I did to. I felt like shit but I still did it, going into high school I reached out, apologized and we made up but I still felt bad for a while. Later on, like sophomore year, another one of my close friends had some crazy allegations brought up against them, I bounced I between supporting them and siding with other people, eventually I couldn’t handle hanging out with them all the time, but now.. I feel like shit. I told them I wasn’t in the right mental state for them to keep venting to me and whenever I offered ways for them to feel better they’d never try, but now I’m wondering if I’m being just as shitty as he’s saying I am, siding with the people who “hate” him and now I’m just all buddy buddy with the same people who essentially just bullied him out of the only group he had and now I’m just totally abandoning him idk but I feel like a real bad bff