I'm scared of coming out to my parents as aroace. I'm a 17 year old exchnage student and my year is over in 3 days and i see my parents again. I really only realised here that i was aro ace and almost noone in my homecountry knows. The problem with coming out to them is, that i have the feeling, that they want me and my brother to be bi or pan. Ever since i can remember, whenever the topic of love would come up and i woul talk about my future boyfriend or husband they would directly correct me and say "or girlfriend/wife or partner you never know" they are supportive of the comunity and that is good, but when you always get told that, it is a presure. They know that if i was lesbian, bi or pan i would tell them. they could have stopped correcting me. My brother got the same treatment and he turned out bi. Now i see my parents again in 3 days and i'm scared, because i know i have to tell them, but i have the feeling that they will be dissapointed in me. I'm just very scared of telling.