What's something someone close to you said that you can't stop thinking about? This was two years ago when I was in year 11 and my supposed father said to me ‘how are you going to fit in your prom dress?’ That comment has stuck with me and has probably worsened by struggles with body image. I’ve always had an uncomfortable relationship with food, like one day I’ll be eating the most and the next day I refuse to eat anything because of the day before. That comment also reminded me of the person that my father is: he’s rude, disrespectful and has no respect for my boundaries and my feelings. Now he’s stopped trying to build a relationship with me which I’m happy about because he makes me feel awkward and uncomfortable. We could be in the same room and we say nothing to each other. But ironically the way I describe him will never parallel with how much half sister describes him because she’s had a whole different person father her.