I had a baby, and now I resent my mom more than ever. She's good with my baby, actually. But every time I see her smile and be sweet and speak in that annoying sing-song voice to my girl, I want to claw my own skin off. When I was a kid, she always talked about how she gave me all the material things we needed and any issues we had (her constantly screaming at us, picking apart our appearances, mocking us for getting a "B" in middle school algebra for some reason, her literally letting a man she'd known for less than a year kick her daughters out of their own house) were invalid. I never measured up to my sister, was always too lazy or too fat or too reserved. And now I have a baby and she wants to act like none of those shitty things happened and she and I are best friends. And I literally cannot even stand the sound of her voice. I want my daughter to have a relationship with her, but at what cost? I keep snapping and yelling at her, which I haven't done in years. I feel crazy.