I feel lots of pressure on me as an older sibling. Something about my mom that I don’t understand is why does she have to rant out all the family issues and negativities on me. What else does she want from me. I understand she may be going through menopause and she is very exhausted from overworking herself at her job, but why does she always have to vent it all to me. If my siblings didn’t wash the pots and pans when I washed all the pile of dirty dishes in the morning, why does she only shift the whole blame on me. She never nags at my sister. She always nags everything on me. I go to school, I go to work, I help at the house, I give her money, I buy her things, I do her favors, etc. Yet she considers me one of the laziest daughters she has ever had and she asks why did she give birth to someone lazy like me. I don’t know either?! I never asked to be born. It’s not my fault you put yourself down this rabbit hole. What else do you want from me.