I just feel like my girlfriend and I are having complications that are subconsciously arising or that we’re just not directly speaking on. We spend a lot and most of our time together, sometimes it feels more like routine v. her actually WANTING to see or be with me if that makes sense. I do feel as though the lust or intimacy has decreased because of that and also outside factors like work and our social lives. We don’t necessarily have a friend group that’s both our friends we just switch up which friend group we usually go out with sometimes so. I don’t know how to express this to her without some type of conflict arising, which has been quite frequent or more than usual lately as our relationship grows. When we are together, with eachother.. it’s like we have the best time ever but once we separate it’s like unnecessary drama and conflict arises between us and I don’t know what more or less to do anymore because I’m running out of options and ideas to make things leveled between us