My husband and I have had issues for months. We’re working on bettering our relationship. But last night, he was assaulted and could’ve been killed. Quick thinking saved his life. His injuries are minor but he’s struggling mentally and absolutely shutting me out. I’m thankful he’s going to be okay. I’m just scared that if he shuts me out, he’ll move on and all of the work we’ve put in is for nothing. I’m not trying to make it all about me. He’s the one suffering. I can’t even mention this fear to him. But I’m scared he leaves me for the coworker he had an affair with, because she understands his career and his pain. He told me before that I’ll never truly understand him like she does because they share a work trauma bond (they’re both in law enforcement) and despite how strong I am for him though the challenging shifts, I’ll never “get it”. I know I sound crazy. I just love him, and I’m worried.