me and my partner's seven year anniversary is coming up soon. i think they're ghosting me. they haven't responded to me or our single mutual friends' messages despite reading them for weeks. we've been friends since we were toddlers and now i can't get a single word out of them. i don't even know if i'm still in love with them anymore. i think we got together too young and too fast. i don't think i like romance and i'm too scared to tell them because that's all they want. we want different things in life and they can't get them from me and they know that but i can't handle this ghosting.