I love my fiancé but he doesn’t give me the intimacy I need. When we began dating 3 years ago we both said we were switches.. turns out he’s a pillow prince bottom and I’m a switch. He won’t pleasure me at all.. only I him. If I feel more subby that day, he locks up and gets upset that I won’t top him and says I “won’t be intimate with him and it hurts” but I just can’t force myself to dom. It’s not fair… I feel so undesirable and unwanted. I wish he were a switch like he told me. I feel like We’re in too deep to just break up over sex. Idk.