So awesome to watch my partner drop everything and call into work at the drop of a hat for our local community organization but won't lift a fucking finger to do anything for our 4 year anniversary or valentines day or my god damn birthday. Im so mad and I know im being selfish because community will always be more important but I still feel so hurt and stunned. He really just up and called into work like that but when I tried to be playful and say "hmm you could play hookie for our anniversary ;)" he was all sighs and "no I gotta go in". I feel so unimportant to him. Im tired of asking how hes doing and getting nothing in response.