Okay, my dad is genuienly a ****. He asks me to get a job while knee deep in my thesis and trying to balance my social life. I know it sounds stupid, but the fact he asks me about it the second I get home no matter what I had to do that day makes me so ticked off. He tells me "If it's not work or school, it's a waste of time". So relaxing? Waste of time. Sick days? waste of time. wanting to do literally anything that isn't school or work? Waste of time. not to mention he asks me stuff about my partner like: Where do they live? Who are they? What are their credentials? (I WISH i was making that one up) do they actually like you? do you actually love them? WHEN I ALREADY HAVE CONFIDENCE ISSUES!!!! honestly, my mental health is so poor at this point that I find it difficult to distinguish any particular day as "sick day". I fear I will only be allowed to rest when the choice is no longer mine... screw you dad, screw you.