does anyones mother changed later in life like, when i was a kid my mom was severely abusive to me, growing up i got beaten up and she was verbully abusive to me, like during this time of my life my dad was absent for a bit because he had to work far away from us so i was left at home mostly w my stay at home mom w my grandma, she was abusive towards both if us ngl but my grandma always defended me, when my grandma passed like 2 years ago i felt an emptiness and regret cuz i felt like no one is going to defend me anymore, even though that sounds stupid, but now my mom has changed, shes not verbally abusve anymore and even divorced and remarried, i mean good for her, but as an adult i cant fathom the fact that shes the same person as she was when i as a kid. nowadays shes really nice to me and i get whatever i want, sometimes i feel like im taking advantage of her, it feels wrong for me to receive her kindness i want to learn to accept her a new person