my husband has never been able to keep a job. He resigns without telling. Does not listen. Had taken debt on credit card which i had to clear (60-70%). I am fed up of being the earning member, to take care of the child and expected to do house work once back from office. He does help partially with the house work and child care. This is after the residual work since my child is going to nursery and has an 8 hour nanny for her. When my parents were home he used to go out for entire day, sit in park or car doing nothing. He is still searching for job and lies on certain days that he has interviews. Everyday i have to pay him pocket money. Why cant he just look after our child so that we can save money. I am fed up of my life and feeling if i die i'll be free from my miserable life.