Has anyone who was queer been accused of not queer because of your physical appearance? Really as a person from a quite conservative family I have been under the radar for some time and I was thinking that if I don't show that I am queer then am I still queer? Do I have to act 'queer' in order to be queer? I am a genderfluid enby who is omniromantic and graysexual, though at school I always represented myself as a more feminine individual in the community, though people have told me that they never connected me as a queer person even though I have told them my identity, the misunderstanding has become to a point where they think I am not a real queer person simply because I don't dress and act like one. I have been quite stressed and confused about this..................