Has anyone who was queer been accused of not queer because of your physical appearance? Really as a person from a quite conservative family I have been under the radar for some time and I was thinking that if I don't show that I am queer then am I still queer? Do I have to act 'queer' in order to be queer? I am a genderfluid enby who is omniromantic and graysexual, though at school I always represented myself as a more feminine individual in the community, though people have told me that they never connected me as a queer person even though I have told them my identity, the misunderstanding has become to a point where they think I am not a real queer person simply because I don't dress and act like one. I have been quite stressed and confused about this..................

Feel bad about whats happening

I feel lonely. Aside from my family- my friends never seem to show up unless it’s continent for them or they need something. I’ve struggled with mental health issues for the longest time, and they never seem to support me. Some of these friends don’t even bother to look up from their computer during our lunch break- just about the only time I see them. My gifts just sit in their closet or drawer- never taken out or even used. I