I sometimes wish I didn't offer to give money to my boyfriend...it started out as a simple gesture during a hard time I didnt mind sending him money I always told him I'd always be here to help but I feel like im letting myself go. I checked my statements one time and I'd sent him almost $800 in one month. He's always telling me about his troubles with finding a job he's show me emails of rejections or empty replies, his only source of income is unemployment checks that come in every week. I always tell him what he could do to change and hes aware of his spending habits (he is trying to work on that). I've offered for him to come live with my family and find a job if hes having a hard time finding a job near him. I just don't know I feel awful telling him no but I can't keep spending hundreds and hundreds of my own hard working money. I feel like im in too deep to back out and telling him no in fear of him being to upset with me. I just don't know what else to think...