going no contact with some or all family is a big and hard decision ik this i did this 4-5 years ago and it was the best decision for me and my little family but that doesnt mean i dont get sad bout it sometimes i do miss them just not how i was treated by them every girl wants to be loved by their father but thats just not how it happens sometimes i have a brother and sister who i dont talk to a nephew that ill never meet and cousins that ill never meet my kids only know one grandparent no aunts n just one uncle (not my brother) but theyll never be treated the way i was put down like i was have every flaw pointed out like i did or told theyll never be able to do what they set out to do like i was told they will have nothing but love support and encouragement from me their step dad and their grandmother i wish my family didnt suck i wish they cared i wish theyd own up how they treated me and apologize for everything but theyll never admit what they did theyll never grow up how sad