I’m about to graduate. My father has had some issues for years, kinda grumpy, hypocritical, is more self centred, and so on. Despite this, he isn’t the worst father. I think he prepared me for the world. But he still isn’t the best. Cause my sister and mom told him we had certain issues with his wording and how he treats us, and how it impacts everyone. Then he got upset, and not the yell-y kind, but basically later on he told my mom that “I’m just a bad father and we should get divorced” and so on. So, he’s not coming to my grad. Idrc about grad by the end of the day, but the principle. Like, he’s gonna make our relationships worse if he just completely pulls away. Does he not get that? It pisses me off. If you cared about it more than what you think of yourself, then you would go put effort into changing. If not, then u need seriously help. But he won’t ever get help, because he doesn’t believe it’ll work. They talked to u so u could change, not pull away. Wth…