I didn't know. My family is so effed up. They've done stuff to me and screwed over me over the years. Be one way then another. Screw me over then not pay it back. Example. They ran a credit card bill up in my name then tossed it when maxed out. Was that right? No it wasn't. Ofc they just blamed it on their drug problem. But guess who it went against? ME. tbh I kinda forgot about it until recently. So should I screw them over in the same ways? No 2 wrongs don't make a right. I get that. But when people f over you so much and are so mentally unstable how are you supposed to handle it all? They'll deny stuff and gaslight and invalidate your feelings. Yeah admittedly I have returned some wrong to them. I don't like myself for it though. There's too many details to list context but if they'd never been awful to me I'd never done half the things I have. Anybody can change though. Theyd get lots money from me n not repay it . One has made me numb to them from alots of abusive behavior.