I feel really horrible about myself as a person. I have habits which irritate my younger sister, and she constantly reminds me of my shortcomings and mocks me, and I feel like I can’t get her to stop. I feel like I can’t connect with people, due to liking to do my own thing most of the time, and I find it difficult to balance relationships. It seems to be easy for other people or easier, so I feel like there is something wrong with me. I often don’t remember to do things, which impacts those around me, and my family tells me that I am selfish and that I don’t value other people due to my behaviour. I feel very self centred, and I get very sensitive when people dismiss me, which makes me think that I have a fragile ego. I feel like I’m performative, and that I value validation too much. I worry that I am not good enough for my partner, who is the sweetest person I know, because of these things. I love my sister, and I worry that she acts like this because I don’t spend time with her.