My husband is incredibly racist. He always has been but as we started dating when I was 16 I was just a foolish girl that just tolerated it. (I protested in the beginning but it was clear that he wasnt listening to my words) But now, at 10 years of being together, I dont know if i have the right to complain. It disgusts and infuriates me how awful he is. No remorse, he will stand by his statements. I hate it. I genuinely, truly, hate how he is so disgusting and hateful. So bitter and mean, I dont know how im suppose dto stay strong in this situation. I dont know how im supposed to be a good wife when he only argues with my complaints or concerns. I dont think I can do this for much longer. I dont want our child to be like this.