i am upset that my boyfriend cannot make any additional efforts to spend time with me. i feel like it is only me who reaches out and plans specific times, he is usually happy to meet up at the those times, but never is the one making the plans. He is also a very busy person and works 12 hours days sometimes. However, I would appreciate a little more communication from him during the day because I feel like we only connect when we are face to face instead of over text. I am mainly upset by this because of a recent event. I was gone for a week and my plane was going to arrive around 11:40pm. My bf works until 10:30pm and he was going to pick us up. The flight was delayed and he went instead to his friends birthday party. He never sees his friends and it was his 21st so I should not be mad, as I gave him the final say to go to the party. But a part of me wanted him to skip altogether and still pick me up. Now today he works until 9pm and I have to wait an additional day to see him.