Basically, I think my mom is doing some kind of emotional incest type thing. From what I understand it is when they forcefully remove boundaries, expect constant validation, and expect companionship when they need it. Emotional Parentification I think is what it is called. It feels like she is treating me as if I am her boyfriend and it feels so absolutely disgusting. What is crazy is this is not even the first time experiencing incest. When I was 8 or 10 I "experimented" with my brother until I realized I actually did not like it like 2 years later so I was the one who stopped it even though he was 5 years older than me. This is only a single layer to the tragedy cake that is my life.
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