I don't understand something. My wife was diagnosed with ALS early last year, and passed away 8 months later. I was with her every single day, at the hospital, rehab, and at home. While at home I was her sole caregiver, and at the hospital and rehab I did everything I could to keep her comfortable. All this time, I was taking care of her two twin sons, getting them to school, refilling their lunch accounts, signing their paperwork, taking them to their football games and other events, and taking them to their relatives' house on the weekends. Keep in mind, I was also dealing with financial shortfalls and random things breaking and needing repair in the house. All this time, I was still spending every single day with my wife, bringing her things from home to keep her comfortable, such as different lotions to put on her legs and feet, different blankets, books and so on. Months after her passing, I've been accused by some of her friends that I didn't look after the boys!