I feel like I am babying my partner, like they are completely incapable of taking care of themself and I have to do everything for them including cook, regulate their emotions, clean up after them and everything in between. I feel like I am drowning in resentment and there's nothing I can do because every time I try to back off they completely freak out and it's all I can do to keep everything together. They are so depressed and so self conscious, that any time I do anything for myself or any time I accomplish anything it is a personal attack on them. I have to be so supporting and interested in all of their activities but when it comes to my stuff I can't even feel proud or fulfilled because every time I talk about it they just get so depressed and sad about their own fucking shit that they can't even look at me. its so fucking pathetic and I am so fuckign over it. I dont even know why I spend time with them anymore. it's like im watching a toddler the entire time.