I feel like no one in my family cares about me as much as my brother, since he has diagnosed ADHD. I understand that my brother has been missing work, a lot of it, but my parents aren't seeing me down or failing no matter how much I show. My mom blames me for everything and confuses me first saying how I'm doing so well then hours later calling me useless and how I never do anything. Let me tell you I'm 13 with a job and a whole bunch of responsibilities that probably shouldn't be mine. It makes me so frustrated cause they don't know how much I do and how much I'm struggling. They believe in me more because I'm the daughter that has had grades higher than a C-, I'm a peer counselor, and I always help out and try out for a bunch of things and my parents thought I'm capable that when I told my mom I was still doing work other that cleaning me room which was my brothers job and she yelled at me and took my phone and now is playing and laughing with my brother . I don't know do anymore.