I just started a break with my bf because within the last 6 months I’ve been feeling uninterested in the relationship and putting it basically no effort. We’ve been together for 4 years so if I feel like I’m throwing away a huge part of my life, but I don’t want to be unhappy. I’m worried that going as far as breaking up is a mistake because he’s truly a good bf and I don’t want to give that up. To be more detailed, I literally find myself feeling like it’s a chore to even text him back, and when I get a text a small part of me hopes it’s not him. I don’t even know how long this break is gonna be for but I just want someone’s opinion on my situation.